By Robert G. Borelli
“The Beauty of Christ's Teachings are that you learn to
Feel before you are Taught to Touch. I wrote that after
listening to one of Father Danny Murphy's (1) Homilies. It
was a different one then the one I cited below. However I
felt that this one expressed the feel before the touch
better. This is where he talked about a Priest that lost
his beautiful 29 year old Sister to a drowning accident
leaving behind her three children. I was not sure if
Father Danny was talking in the 3rd person or the 1st
person but the story remains the same. This Priest could
not cope with the loss of his Sister and started on a path
of self-destruction thus leading him to question his faith
in God, and his purpose as a Priest. Eventually the burden
was so difficult for him that he was institutionalized.
While there, he had a couple from his parish that visited
him on a daily basis. They would stay for hours, talking
with him, praying with him, laughing with him, and crying
with him. Eventually after several months of treatment
this Priest was healed. He returned to an active status of
his Priesthood and today is again saying Mass, preaching
the Good News of Jesus Christ, and touching people's
souls. Father Danny's sad story of learning to feel is an
extreus example of what Priest endure as they have to
merge their private lives with their servitude to God and
His Church. But all Priest must learn, in some manner, to feel, before they are taught to touch. I cited
only one example of Father Murphy's Talks. However he
continues to do this kind of shared feelings followed by
soft emotional touches at every one of his Homilies that I
have the blessed fortune of witnessing. But think of
this, was not Christ, our greatest teacher, himself
exposed to learning to feel? Was he not rejected, tempted,
criticized, humiliated, condemned, scorned, and finally
hung on a cross to die? Christ could have came down as a
King and command all that was wrong to be right. Was that
not what was expected? But No, he came down as a poor
man's son so he could learn to feel as only a common man
could. Only then after 30 years of learning did he Touch.
So powerful was the substance of his Touch that it is
still Relevant 2000 plus years later. As men, are we not
burden with our own struggles? Do we not need support to
overcome them? This is the purpose and mission of Catholic
Men's Ministries of Indian River County Florida. We are
here to feel. We are here to touch. We are here to talk.
We are here to listen. We are here to learn. We are here to pray, We are here for you. Please consider
joining us.
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(1) Father Danny Murphy is a retired Pastor from
Brooklyn NY. A gifted man with a God given talent to
inspire and God's gift to us at Holy Cross Church in Vero
Beach Florida. |
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